no1flyer

It's been 3 yrs, 5 mos, 15 days but who's counting. I have tried most of the previous posts. It just never stops hurting. She was the love of my life. I have tried so many things to get over it and I only get some relief some of the time. I hide my hurt as best I can and mask it with activities that only give momentary relief like dancing, work outs, movies, and the such. I even tried the "astonishing" things. [almost 16 years ago]
How do I get over someone I am madly in love with?