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My wife hates me and teaches two young daughters to hate. What should I do?

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Creator:drobel
Created:over 14 years ago
Activity:about 2 years ago
Users:9
Ideas:27
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u dont have to do anything. u might even be doing too many things. maybe u hav a misinterpretation of what it means to be a breadwinner. usually this is the man, not bc he is more able, but bc of his need to win. we are brought up to fight and stand up for what we believe in and there is nothing wrong with that until we start fantasizing that other peoples happiness depends on our own. leave them alone, let them think their thoughts, let them know why they really like u. stop the indifference...
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its not what u think, she doesnt quite hate u, or else she would have left. she cannot influence ur daughters anymore than she can influence you. so go along with the flow, if you think she hates you then ask yourself why would you hate urself? why should you also hate hating and feed less fuel to the lack of fire. u must be more passionate about what you desire. u must burn ur bridges, and stop thinking about ur options - just pick one mistake and correct it...
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try something new, have a vacation, and figure out what ur really afraid of. u cant change her attitude bc ur probably used to it. u cant just change ur attitude either bc u dont know where to begin. u dont hav to giv in, no need to change ur mind, just do the best u can. u might get frustrated but u must remember ur not alone, determine ur goal and keep at it, most of all find a mentor whos already done it...
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BE yourself... if she still hates you... then she just simply hates you... get over it and move on. Your kids will ALWAYS love you, show them love, teach them love, and never speak poorly of mom... love like Jesus does, and love will prevail
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she doesn't hate you any more than you hate her. you are in a destructive cycle of codependent miscommunication. you need professional help.
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Seek help of professional marriage counsellors. Depending on amateur ideas, even if in good faith, would result in loss of precious time
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Get away from her. See a lawyer and arrange contact with the kids and watch them become slowly aware of what a vindictive cow thier mother can be. Kids aren't stupid.
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Leave her and find someone who appreciates you. Life is too short...
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Dont blame it all on her, Maybe your doing something to make her hate you. in which case stop them, be good to her and she probably wont teach your two daughters to want to kill you savagly.
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Beer four twenty
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Take a good look at yourself and ask why?
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just try to find out what she appreciates when she is some other male friends company
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may be she is expecting a lot from you which you are not able to fulfill
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Next, identify things that you feel worried about (hate).
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Have a conversation with your wife that first honors her parenting.
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Do you think you may be a contributor to the problem? In what way can you alleviate that?
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Consult a therapist to find out the psychodynamics which causes the problem
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Maybe she has Borderline Personality Disorder
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Find out why
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Couple Therapy
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either talk to her about this or leave her