how do you stop loving someone you care about alot - BrainReactions.net Online Brainstorming http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 BrainReactions.net Online Brainstorming Tue, 16 Oct 2007 16:01:31 BrainReactions.net Online Brainstorming webmaster@brainreactions.net 20 11. Realize that the person came into your life to teach you something, figure out what you learned, thank your higher power for giving you that lesson, put it behind you and start looking for your next teacher. http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19664 Tue, 16 Oct 2007 16:01:31 10. When you were first getting to know them, you had certain "issues" about them that you decided to ignore. Go back, dig those up, and focus on how those issues were causing problems that you wouldn't have with someone else. http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19663 Tue, 16 Oct 2007 15:59:29 9. Or, put the feelings you have aside and only bring them out when you are ready to deal http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19489 Fri, 12 Oct 2007 09:58:13 8. The person has moved into a room of your heart. Let the experience you shared stay there for a while but when it's time for the rent to be collected, you'll see that they aren't able to pay. You'll know then that it's time to evict. http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19488 Fri, 12 Oct 2007 09:56:02 7. its hard but then they'll cock something up soon that'l make you glad your well away http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19205 Tue, 09 Oct 2007 14:28:08 6. Write all your thoughts about the situation on paper (especially the negative ones). Counter each negative thought with a positive thought. http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19192 Mon, 08 Oct 2007 16:13:41 5. Look at ideas in this brainstorm: http://brainreactions.net/brainstorms/147 http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19190 Mon, 08 Oct 2007 12:34:10 4. remember the worst arguement that you ever had http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19184 Mon, 08 Oct 2007 09:58:51 3. visualise their face whilst you clean the toilet http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19183 Mon, 08 Oct 2007 09:58:35 2. find other people to love http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19182 Mon, 08 Oct 2007 09:58:04 1. Probably you never can. However, think about the major ideological differences you had http://www.brainreactions.net/brainstorms/1811 19175 Mon, 08 Oct 2007 08:40:14