Open Brainstorms

Realize that the person came into your life to teach you something, figure out what you learned, thank your higher power for giving you that lesson, put it behind you and start looking for your next teacher.

When you were first getting to know them, you had certain "issues" about them that you decided to ignore. Go back, dig those up, and focus on how those issues were causing problems that you wouldn't have with someone else.

Or, put the feelings you have aside and only bring them out when you are ready to deal

The person has moved into a room of your heart. Let the experience you shared stay there for a while but when it's time for the rent to be collected, you'll see that they aren't able to pay. You'll know then that it's time to evict.

its hard but then they'll cock something up soon that'l make you glad your well away

Write all your thoughts about the situation on paper (especially the negative ones). Counter each negative thought with a positive thought.

Look at ideas in this brainstorm: http://brainreactions.net/brainstorms/147

remember the worst arguement that you ever had

visualise their face whilst you clean the toilet

find other people to love

Probably you never can. However, think about the major ideological differences you had